TOWN OF POUGHKEEPSIE, NY – A crowd of over 100 people gathered at the Dutchess County War Memorial in Arlington on Monday to honor and remember the brave men and women who gave their lives in defense of the American way of life. The Memorial Day service was solemn, heartfelt, and a powerful reminder of the sacrifices made by U.S. servicemembers.
A Ceremony of Reflection and Respect
The ceremony was led by United States Marine veteran Adam Roche, now serving as Director of Dutchess County Veterans Services. Roche, who experienced intense combat during his military service in the Middle East, served as emcee for the event. His presence and words carried the weight of someone who has lived the realities of war.
Among the distinguished speakers was Lieutenant Colonel Beth-Anne Canero (Ret.), another Marine, who delivered a moving keynote address. Before Canero took the stage, the crowd heard reflections from New York State Senator Rob Rolison and Dutchess County Executive Sue Serino, both of whom emphasized the importance of remembering those who never made it home.
A Story of Courage and Loss
Lt. Col. Canero shared a deeply personal memory from her time in combat — a moment that left a lasting mark on her life. She recalled the bravery of her Gunnery Sergeant, who lost his life while saving two fellow Marines during battle.
“For those of us who have lost brothers and sisters-in-arms, their actions were real,” Canero said. “Their voices still echo in our minds, and sometimes the silence that is left is way too much to bear.”
Her words resonated with veterans and civilians alike. She reminded those gathered that Memorial Day is more than just a long weekend or a day for barbecues — it’s a solemn occasion meant to honor the fallen by saying their names aloud so they are never forgotten.
Support for Those Who Return
While Memorial Day focuses on honoring those who made the ultimate sacrifice, the ceremony also touched on the struggles faced by veterans who come home. In closing, Adam Roche offered a message of hope and encouragement to those who continue to carry invisible wounds from war.
“There is no shame in asking for help,” Roche said, addressing fellow veterans.
He spoke of the vital role that Vet2Vet of Dutchess County, a program under Mental Health America (MHA), plays in helping veterans adjust to civilian life. The program offers peer support, counseling, and community resources, and is now under the leadership of Alyssa Carrion, who continues to expand its outreach and services.
A Community United in Gratitude
As the ceremony concluded, attendees stood quietly, many with hands over hearts or heads bowed. The sense of unity and shared purpose was strong, as the community came together not only to mourn but also to remember with gratitude.
Events like the Dutchess County Memorial Day service serve as a powerful reminder that freedom comes at a cost — and that cost is paid by courageous individuals whose memories deserve to live on through our words and actions.
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