Cicely Greaves, producer and TV host of the award-winning program Give and Take the Virtues in Life, appeared at the Pawling Library on February 26 for her presentation entitled Renewal. There was an immediate connection with those who gathered for this engaging interactive self-improvement program. Ms. Greaves compassion for others was perfectly clear from the moment she began speaking and those in attendance shared their worries, doubts, and fears.  “We allow others to give away our power,” said Ms. Greaves, “Always self-respect comes first.” As her presentation came to a close there was a change in the room; a new and positive light.  “I learn from you. You learn from me,” said Ms. Greaves. We are happy Ms. Greaves plans to return to our library for another program.